I'm NOT Okay With This...

*Grinds our Gears* - Don't say "are you okay?" or "is there anything I can do?" to someone who just told you awful news. It's annoying and insincere. No, I'm not okay that someone is dying, or that I got in a car accident, or that I got my tooth knocked out by a beer bottle. And you're not planning to do anything even if I did say that there IS something you can do, so don't ask. Just say "I'm sorry that happened. Want to go get drunk?"